Ten ways you know you have found “The One”

I’ve heard several people recently talking about finding “the one”. What is “the one” that they are referring to? I would say that people mean that it is the person who they feel confident about spending the rest of their life with. I think most people are searching for this kind of person, regardless of […]


Dating Disasters: The guy who tried to impress his date by talking about porn»

Ever watched the show “Blind Date” and found yourself yelling at the screen pointing out all the wrong things the fools on the show are doing? Ever sit there and analyze the entire episode from start to finish? Well, so have I. And in that spirit, I have decided to write an analysis of various […]

A new arrival»

As many faithful readers of this site have noticed, I haven’t been posting as many articles of late as I usually do. And there’s a really good reason for that. My wife and I welcomed our newborn son into the world on March 29, 2010. Suffice it to say, it is a really big change, […]

A diatribe about fake pick up gurus»

I’m sure a lot of guys reading this site are familiar with what’s called the “pick up” community. Basically this is an informal scene, mostly organized over the net of “experienced” guys (i.e. experienced with women) instructing less experienced guys how to pick up and have sex with the hottest models on the planet, but […]

New Moon- an analysis»

I’m a huge fan of the Twilight movie series. Not because I’m a sucker for gooey teenage love romances or I think it’s particularly breathtaking movie making. No, I love these movies because it’s written by a woman for girls, and so gives a backstage look at women’s desires and fantasies. As I sit and […]

But we were on a break!»

It’s a classic line from the show “Friends”. Ross and Rachel broke up and Rachel finds out that Ross had slept with another woman. When confronted, Ross says “But we were on a break!”  Since then, this phrase has become a part of popular culture. This situation rears its ugly head over and over again. […]

Mailbag: Our communication problems are ruining our relationship!»

Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, and everything was going great. I moved from another state to be with him, and I have yet to find a job here, so we are pretty much together all the time. Well, my problem is now he’s saying that he feels I analyze […]