What you should always do at the end of a first dateBy Relationshiplab • Jul 30th, 2008 • Category: Articles, Dating, For Men
It’s closing in on the end of your first date. You’ve been having a good time, joking, laughing, and enjoying each other’s company the whole time. You definitely like this girl, but how do you know she feels the same? She definitely likes your company, but does she feel about you the same way you feel about her? Is she romantically interested in you? And how do you find out?
This is something I see a lot of guys bungle all the time. The date goes relatively well, but after they still have no idea where they stand with the girl. Then they call her up for a 2nd date and get shot down or else don’t call at all because they’re afraid the girl didn’t like them.
All of these doubts and insecurities can be solved with one simple action.
Kiss the girl.
That’s right at the end of the date, assuming you haven’t been physical yet, it is mandatory to go in for the kiss.
1. You are able to clearly gauge where you stand with the girl. If you reach in to kiss, and she pulls away, you definitely know you are OUT of the ballgame. Yeah, I guess there may be some women who are attracted to you and are very conservative and want to hold out on kissing you on the first date. But come on, in this age, unless she’s super religious, there really is no taboo about kissing early. If the girl likes you, she won’t pull away, period. And if she does like you and doesn’t want to be kissed, do you really feel like spending your life pulling her teeth to be affectionate? You can also tell the girl’s interest level by the kind of kiss you get back. Is she passionate or does she just give you a peck? All of these things can give you an indication of the girl’s interest level.
2. The girl EXPECTS you to kiss her. That’s right. Every sane girl who likes a guy wants that guy to be masculine, aggressive and show initiative but going in for the kiss. By not attempting to kiss her, you most likely are giving HER the wrong signals by making her feel that you are not really that interested in her. Woman expect interested guys to show they’re interested. And that means kissing her. I have actually seen potential romances be dashed to bits because the girl assumed the guy didn’t like her because he didn’t try to kiss her.
Remember guys, make sure you take away all doubt from the equation. Go for the kiss at the end of the date. You’ll know where you stand and she’ll know where you stand too.